You keep ending up here.
Checking your phone for a text that isn't coming. Knowing exactly what to say and not saying it. Giving more than you're getting, again, from someone who was never going to meet you halfway.
This isn't who you are. It's what you learned, a long time ago, from people who didn't know any better either. And the great news is you can learn your way out of it.
I've been in this work for twenty-five years and used it on myself first and then with hundreds of thousands of people who needed the same thing you do right now.
And now you can get it all at once. Four courses and a return to your original blueprint of loving and leading. One price.
It's about time you stop calling it bad luck.
A bad breakup here. That streak of wrong matches there. That time you knew you should have spoken up about a boundary but just swallowed it instead. And then you just filed each one away as a bad year, a bad ex, its own separate thing to get over and move past. Every time you are convinced that the next time will be different.
What if the breakup, the dating, and the boundaries were never separate problems?
It's all one pattern, just showing up wearing different shoes.
The breakup recovery work and the dating work and the boundaries work all come from the same place inside you. If you heal one, the others naturally shift. When you ignore one, the others will stall out. This isn't just theory, it's how it's gone for everyone that's really grappled with this work, including me.
So here's what you actually get: closure that doesn't need an apology from anyone. A way to spot the wrong person before you've given them six months of your life. The ability to feel complete without needing another person to complete you. The words for the boundary that keeps catching in your throat and even the sense of self so you can actually say them. With the Create the Love Vault, you don't just get one of these outcomes, you get all of them.
Breakup Recovery
Liberate your past
+ Breakups and Divorce
+ Heartbreak
+ Betrayal
+ Reclaming yourself
+ Conscious uncoupling
The relationship ended. Even the breakup ended. So why hasn't the constantly thinking about it ended?
Closure from someone else is a myth. You don't need an apology you're never going to get. You don't even need them to explain themselves, or admit what they did, or even come back for the do-over that would change everything. (Spoiler alert: it probably wouldn't.) What you need is for the late-night replay to stop and for you to sleep through the night without regret and loneliness hitting as the very first emotions when you wake up.
I built this experience from my own breakup, the one that was a huge catalyst to the life and love I experience today. It's structured in five stages to tackle the grief, obsessive thoughts, your own identity work, the patterns that got you here, and the version of you that walks out the other side.
Learn how to effectively heal your heartbreak, take your power back, and use the pain from your breakup to transform your life. This is my personal recipe on how to go from heartbreak, to healing, to thriving.
Who's Breakup Recovery For?
Humans who are feeling hurt, lost, betrayed, bewildered, and frozen after a breakup, and need help healing and moving forward with their lives. For anyone struggling - no matter how long it’s been post breakup.
What Does Breakup Recovery Include?
+ Five course modules, one for each stage of healing
+ A full toolkit to use in whatever moment the heartbreak strikes again
+ A workbook to actually externalize and process instead of just replaying everything in your head
+ Personal growth
+ Understanding your patterns
+ Building positive habits
+ Discovering sense of self
Rediscover your Wholeness
Liberate yourself
You’re not lost. You’re just buried under who you learned to be.
The mask went on so long ago you stopped noticing it was there. You scroll instead of sitting still. You run from one relationship to the next without a beat in between. You hide your real hurts behind a version of yourself that almost fits, but still feels tight and itchy. None of that means something's wrong with you, itt means you adapted, a long time ago, to a life that needed you to be someone slightly different than who you actually are.
Four modules, each one building on the last. First, why you are the way you are, the origins, the fitting in, and the self-sabotage that made sense at the time. Then, defining what you actually value and want, instead of what you've been performing for the sake of other people. Then, learning to be with your emotions instead of getting run over by them. And last, integrating all of it into the person you already are, not a new one.
Learn what made you who you are today, why you show up to life the way you do, how to break out of old patterns, crush your fears, and honour your truth. Step into full alignment with your integrity, figure out what it is you really want, and how to feel “complete” without needing another. This course contains my personal journey of rediscovering my wholeness and what helped me grow into the Leader, Teacher, and Liberation Guide that I am today. Jam packed with my best content focusing on personal growth - one of our most loved courses!
Anyone who is seeking to level up their personal growth. Focused on understanding yourself better so you can heal what needs to be cleared out in order to be your best self and to have better relationships with others. Also perfect for anyone who just went through a breakup or completed our Breakup Recovery Recipe Course and feels like they need “find their soul again.”
+ 50+ lessons and exercises across the four modules, plus a workbook built for actually doing the work
+ Meditations, affirmations, and journaling prompts for real time support and integration
+ A practice for identifying your emotional triggers, before they identify you
+ Tools to expose your inner critic and stop letting it run the show
Who's Rediscover Your Wholeness For?
What Does Rediscover Your Wholeness Include?
Dating 101
Liberate your relationships
Dating is an art. And picking a great partner is the most important skill we may ever learn—because who we pick will shape and alter the direction of our lives.
You’ve read the red flag lists. You can spot a narcissist in a thread on the internet. And somehow you’re still three months into something with someone who was never going to be good for you, wondering how you missed it again.
You didn't miss it. You just weren’t taught what to do with what you saw, or how to tell real vulnerability from someone who’s just good at oversharing.
This is the course I used to meet my wife. Four weeks on how to actually choose someone, not how to perform well enough that they choose you.
Learn all about how and why you show up to relationships the way you do, how to build epic relationships from the ground-up, and how to keep the fire burning long and strong! Jam packed with my best content focusing on relational wellbeing - our most popular course! Not your typical dating course—great for humans in relationships too!
+ Dating guidance
+ Understanding your past/relational Makeup
+ Relationship guidance
+ Breaking relational patterns
Who's Dating 101 For?
Anyone who wants to have amazing relationships. Great as a starter course. For anyone single, dating, or in a relationship.
Inside Dating 101 You'll get:
+ A breakdown of how your attachment system formed, and how to read it in real time, before three months go by
+ 50+ exercises with in a conveniently printable + fillable PDF workbook that includes meditations, affirmations, visualizations, and more!
+ Explore hot topics in six multi-part video series with experts in the field on The Nervous System, Narcissism in Relationships, and Sex & Intimacy.
+ Boundaries
+ Integrity in relationship to self
+ integrity in relationship to other (including people, work, social media, technology etc)
Become a Boundaries Badass
Liberate your boundaries
Walls keep people out. Boundaries teach people where the door is. But it’s hard to build better boundaries when you never learned how.
You say yes when you mean no and you take the blame for things that weren't yours, just to keep the "peace." You give more than you get, and you fall hard, fast, for people who never quite meet you there. You tell yourself you hate drama, and somehow you're still in the middle of it, again. None of that makes you weak. It means nobody ever taught you the difference between protecting yourself and disappearing.
Through this course, you'll actually build the skill, not just understand it. You'll learn the different kinds of boundaries, why you've struggled to hold them even when you knew you needed to, and how to tell a wall from a boundary in your own life, in real time, not just in theory.
Learn all about boundaries, why you don’t have any, and how to make (and keep!) them. Boundaries are all about honouring yourself and this course will help you heal and empower your expansion. SCRIPTS INCLUDED!
Who's Become a Boundaries Badass For?
Anyone who has trouble making and keeping boundaries and wants to learn why we don’t have them in the first place, how to make them, and how to keep and honour them. A great course to take at any point along your journey of expansion into your authentic self.
What's Inside Become a Boundaries Badass?
+ 25+ short, direct video lessons play
+50+ workbook pages of practical exercises, not just concepts to nod along to
+ An intro and closing assessment so you can actually see what shifted
+A clear read on your specific boundaries, at work, with family, in your most intimate relationships
+ The exact words for the moment you need them to start relating in a new way
Relationship to Money
Liberate your wealth/abundance
Have your wealth meet your worth. What is getting in the way of having a life full of inner and outer richness? OUR WORTH.
Money is a relationship. And like every relationship you're in, it's running on a story you didn't choose. What you're allowed to have. What you're worth. What you won't let yourself look at. Over four weeks, Selina Gray and I take you to the root of that story and help you write a new one. You'll only ever let yourself have what you believe you're worthy of. This is where that number changes.
Learn to heal your relationship with money, activate your wealth, and clear your debts and blocks! So much more than just about money - you will develop an awareness of old patterns that keep you feeling small, stuck, and reactionary, how to unblock them, and how to step into your full worthiness and the wealth you deserve.
+ Healing your money story
+ Wealth and abundance
+ Worthiness
+ Discovering inherited patterns
+ Breaking through blocks
+ Self-expansion
Who's Relationship to Money For?
Anyone who wants to work on their relationship with money and inherited money patterns. Anyone who feels stuck in all areas of their life.
What's Inside Relationship to Money?
+4 modules to move through at your own pace
+Short video lessons with Mark Groves and Selina Gray
+Guided meditations and visualizations for each module
+The Relationship to Money workbook, exercises, money tools, and the net worth and cash flow work
+The full arc: your money story, your money wounds, your attachment to it, and the foundation for a new one
What they're saying:
Way more than just a dating course.
Dating 101
This course helped me uncover hidden blocks and step into my fullest potential.
Rediscover your wholeness
When I started, I was in great pain and still had hope for reconciliation, but by the end of the course, I understood where I had forgotten myself and how I had not shown up for myself.
Breakup recovery recipe
This course is life changing! I’ve learned so much of myself. It has allowed me to take accountability for my participation in my relationships and dismantle the thoughts that don’t serve me. It has taught me boundaries, boundaries, boundaries. I have hope in creating the life I want! Be open to myself and truly love myself first. Thank you Mark for your course. It is the catalyst for true change.
Become a boundaries badass
Process
Revealing
Healing
Integration
Liberation
Creation
Breakup Recovery Recipe
"This course has allowed me to become so much more knowledgeable about myself when both in and out of a relationship."
Week 1, I was in great pain and still had hope for reconciliation. Then I realised how he was not meeting my needs. By Week 4, I understood where I had forgotten myself in the relationship and how I had not shown up for myself. And I know better now. I have boundaries now that prevent me from falling into the same pattern. My plan now is to complete Mark's Become A Boundary Badass course to further my awakening.
Breakup Recovery Recipe
"My love and dating life expectations have evolved, become healthier, and the work I've done in these courses has positively impacted my friendships and family dynamics."
I am no stranger to Mark Groves' courses, and the Break Up Recovery Recipe has been as impactful as Dating 101, for different reasons. I feel expanded, challenged, and supported whenever I lean in and complete the coursework. There hasn't been an area of life where I've not experienced healing and growth, thanks to the levelling up of awareness I've gained from doing the work. Highly recommend for anyone that can sense the patterns and habits they repeat are no longer serving them.
Dating 101
"Mark's Dating 101 course changed my life in ways I never thought possible!"
It's way beyond what I expected and not just about how to date. Mark dives deep into subjects beyond dating to help you understand why we make the choices we make and how we can start making better choices. I'm so excited to take what I've learned in Mark's course and start applying it to my new outlook on dating! You will not regret taking this course, it is life changing!
Dating 101
"Not only do I feel good about dating, but I also have never felt so confident in how to make positive and measurable change in my life outside of dating."
When I started this class, I just wanted to learn how to make dating fun and less draining. I got so much more than I bargained for!
Rediscover Your Wholeness
"I feel at home in my heart and my decisions, something I lacked for some time."
This course is truly life-changing, it's been the best thing I've done for myself in 2022 and I'm sure I'll revisit, or redo this in the fall. It's an excellent way to revisit yourself and remember your power, confidence, and rewrite your future.
Rediscover Your Wholeness
"This program was a beautiful invitation to uncover some of the hidden places that keep us removed from stepping into our full potential."
Thank you Mark! I have done personal development work in the past but I had several a-ha moments come through for me during this course that were profound. I am so grateful for the work you are doing and the wisdom that it allowed me to unlock within myself.
Become a Boundaries Badass
"Let me tell you, this course was the best course I've ever done in my life. It helped me process a lot of my emotions around the breakup, while simultaneously understanding how I had so many porous boundaries which contributed to the ending of that relationship. "
It helped me better understand how to create healthy boundaries within myself in all areas of my life and I already started implementing them. This course honestly already changed my life! So grateful for you Mark and your work! Already got a friend to get the course too.
Become a Boundaries Badass
"This course is both healing and empowering...life-changing, really"
It helped me reconnect to the best parts of myself (and protect those through boundaries), while learning that self-love and love of others are both optimized through the creation of healthy boundaries.
Relationship to Money
"Thanks for presenting a tough subject in such a comprehensive and learnable format."
Like all of Mark’s programs, Relationship To Money is great. And the combo of Mark and Selina’s superpowers combined is pretty amazing. I never associated intuition with money, but I do now.
Relationship to Money
"I truly appreciate all the words of wisdom you shared and the nuggets of brilliance that you imparted on us. I feel like I've come home to myself. "
This course and journey have been eye-opening and heart centering for me. It was so challenging yet enriching—I am feeling much more like myself and awakening parts of me that I have been too scared to reveal for some time. I feel like I can own who I am, what I want and set the appropriate boundaries in order to feel successful. The knot in my stomach has dissipated and I am full of energy, life force and wonder as I step into my truth. From the bottom of my heart, THANK YOU BOTH.
Benefits you'll get:
Liberation in all areas of your life.
Step into your most authentic version of yourself.
Break through blockages and dismantle inherited patterns that hold you back.
Learn new ways to communicate, relate, honour yourself, and be a guiding example for others.
Learn to be comfortable in speaking your truth, following your intuition, and being original instead of following the grain.
Do you...
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Feel stuck and unable to move forward in healing, expansion, creating relationships with others/the world that serve you or satisfy your needs because you don't know how/you were never taught how.
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Not truly understand yourself, your values, your needs, your emotions, or what your truth is.
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Feel stuck in anxiety and fear -- i.e. layers of societal conditioning, inherited family patterns and behaviours, your inner critic, and fear of opposing the current social norms.
Let us help you...
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By revealing what your blockages are, helping you delve deep into your psyche to uncover hidden woundings from events you've experience, usually during childhood, but from any relationships/areas of live in general.
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Work through changing these wounds into wisdom and empowering you to change the way you see your story/past, feeling like a weight has been removed, and start fresh again with a renewed sense of clarity and direction in order to create the life you want/that truly honours you.
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See a different view of the world that you never had before that empowers you to not only shed the past that holds you back, but creates a springboard for you to become masters of your own talents and crafts.
what can actually change:
Great relationships don’t happen to you. You build them. And you can learn how.
You've probably noticed you're the common denominator. Same pattern, different relationship, different decade. That's not a flaw in you, but it's something nobody taught you how to do: choose well, hold the true shape of yourself once you're in something, and know the difference between protecting yourself and disappearing. Maybe you've been through a breakup that taught you what you don't want. Maybe you're beginning to see the potential growth waiting for you in dating and truly learning how to choose. Maybe you've realized that the next key is boundaries that teach you how to stay yourself once you've found someone. And underneath all of it, you meet the person who was always underneath who you learned to be.
Create the love Vault
A life where you belong to yourself first, and everyone else gets the version of you that's actually whole. A relationship that’s healthy and reciprocal, not because you're managing it carefully, but because you finally know how to choose and be in an authentic one. A life you recognize as yours, built on purpose, not landed in by accident. Not someday. Now.
You keep ending up here. This is how you end up SOMEWHERE BETTER.
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