Let me qualify what I’m about to say with the recognition that I am a member of the gender largely responsible for the fact that women feel like they are not allowed to age and that their perceived value rests in their attempted maintenance of youth.
If I am part of the problem, I would like to be part of the solution.
So, let me also preface every other word that’s about to be dropped with this:
I am not telling you how to live. I’m not telling you what to do. And I’m certainly not shaming any choice you’re making… BUT, I want us all to discuss the impact these choices have and, if we’re doing it to raise our *value*, and/or our mate value, then we should at least acknowledge all the messages we’re sending to ourselves and others when we’re overly invested in injecting our lips, faces, tits, pecs, calves, butts, and whatever else we’ve decided to inflate, other than our self-worth.
AND, someone’s got to say it. Does it need to be me? Maybe. Maybe not.
The beautiful thing is, you don’t have to listen! So either 👋 or ✌️. Either way, sending you love.
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