We burn bridges we don’t know how to cross yet, and we also burn bridges we don’t want to cross back over.
It’s wild that the strategy we use to not allow ourselves to go backwards and shrink back to what once was is also the same strategy we use to not allow ourselves to play as big as we possibly can.
I remember when Kylie and I did our closing ceremony after we broke up from relationship 1.0. (If you haven’t learned about this… 🤯 listen to the podcast I did about it here — 🥲 alert.)
I was sitting outside in my car not wanting to go in. I sat there thinking, “I don’t want to do this.”
And then I asked myself, “Do I not want to do it because I genuinely just don’t want to do it, or do I not want to do it because the person who can do the closing ceremony doesn’t yet exist?”
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