Are you stuck? Or is it self-sabotage? Do you really not know where you want to go and what you want to do? Or are you just saying that so you don’t have to do those things?
These are important questions that we must explore honestly. Most people are not where they want to be because they don’t actually want to be there. To go “there” or become “that” would mean too much disruption to the comforts of their life… even if that means staying in toxic/unhealthy patterns.
Also, we can get stuck because of an unconscious loyalty to the stories and limiting beliefs of our families, friends, culture and community. We don’t want to outgrow them or mature beyond their capacity for health and intimacy out of an unconscious dedication to maintaining a dysfunctional human system. Our role in that system is to keep it going… to stay the same so the system operates the same.
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