John Wineland is a renowned author, teacher and speaker who guides both men and women in the realms of life purpose, relational communication, sexual intimacy and embodiment. I’ve admired John’s work for years, incorporating many of his teachings into my own journey.
Join us for this episode where we explore a new vision of awakened masculinity — one rooted in conscious awareness, unflinching responsibility and true leadership. One that invites men to feel deeply, disavow numbness and turn away from ego-driven dogma that has harmed women, the planet, and men themselves.
John’s embodiment-driven teaching draws from not only over 30 years of experience of his own Buddhist meditative practice but from 13 years of intensive study and practice with renowned Yogic Intimacy teacher, David Deida. Drawing from Deida’s revolutionary framework, as well as the deep lineages of Vajrayana, Tantra, Kundalini yoga, Taoist and Iron Shirt Qigong traditions, John seeks to create a profound experience for men and women longing to express their deepest desires with open, fierce and loving hearts. His new book, From The Core, shares a practical guide to redefine, heal and re-embrace masculinity in our world.
00:38 A new paradigm of masculinity
04:44 What is a liberated man?
08:36 Integrating the masculine and feminine within
10:35 Liberate yourself from patterns
13:58 The myth of the good husband
17:31 Why we resist liberation
19:42 Changing your karma
24:40 Make space for your inner self
26:57 Men want depth
30:28 Grief and anger
32:00 Beauty and awe
34:09 Love is not transactional
39:27 Killing the teacher
41:35 Internal patriarchy
43:24 Having a partner who challenges you
46:19 How to relate to the feminine
47:11 Toxic masculinity