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Apr 11, 2022

How to Change Your Patterns in Love with Vienna Pharaon

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Core Wounds, Dating, Family Systems, Patterns, Relationships


Recently I had the honour of hosting a webinar on relational patterns (and how to change them) with one of the top psychologists in the game, Vienna Pharaon. Vienna is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist practicing out of New York City and is an absolute master at helping people identify their relational patterns, where they came from and ultimately, how to change them. I wanted to share this Q&A with you so you can hear other’s stories and perhaps identify parts of your own within them.


  • How to stop comparing your current partner to your ex
  • Why you may choose people who are hot and cold or find you “hard to love”
  • How to stop obsessing over your ex, their current partner and why they didn’t commit to you
  • How to navigate opposite-sex friendships while still honouring your relationship
  • Why you may consistently choose jealous or controlling partners


  • Use the code CREATETHELOVE to get $50 off Vienna’s Origins of You course. This is an online 5 week self study course that every human should take if you want to be in the driver seat of your own life!
  • Follow Vienna on Instagram at @mindfulmft