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Jan 9, 2023

Love, Forgiveness, and Healing with Danielle LaPorte

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Boundaries, Cancel Culture, Forgiveness, Narcissism, Self-Awareness, Self-Love, Transformation, Virtue Signaling, Virtuosity


Back for the second time is my good friend, Danielle Laporte. Danielle is an author, speaker, podcaster and a member of Oprah’s SuperSoul 100, a group who, in Oprah Winfrey’s words, “is uniquely connecting the world together with a spiritual energy that matters.” In this episode, Danielle and I chat about allll the things, including true, embodied virtuosity, virtue signaling, cancel culture, boundaries, narcissism and how to be loving in a world that’s waking up.

Danielle is the author of The Fire Starter Sessions, The Desire Map, White Hot Truth, and producer of dozens of meditation kits and online programs for spiritual support. Her most recent book, How To Be Loving…when your heart is breaking open and the world is waking up, is also an Audiobook + ebook, with a companion deck and journal. Danielle is the creator of the Heart Centered Membership and the Heart Centered Leadership Program with 400+ leaders in 30 countries hosting conversation circles, retreats, and workshops in all kinds of communities and businesses.

Her podcast, With Love, Danielle, often ranks in iTunes’ top 10 for wellness. Most of her offerings—from the Heart Centered Membership to her online classes—are on a pay what you choose basis. Named one of the Top 100 Websites for Women by Forbes, millions of people a month visit


  • Having reverence for your shadow and the parts of yourself you dislike
  • Our thoughts on virtue signalling and what it truly means to be virtuous
  • The absurdity of cancel culture
  • A theory on why there’s tyranny and evil in the world
  • Setting boundaries from a loving and healed place
  • Forgiving yourself and others (even if you feel like they’re unforgivable)
  • Things to reflect on if you’ve been with a narcissist

00:00 Intro 

 03:45 The turning point in Danielle’s work 

07:51 Loving what you hate about yourself

11:52 Psychological virtue

15:04 Virtue signaling

22:08 Cancel culture

27:07 Theory about tyranny

31:57 How To Be Loving

37:59 Boundaries

43:18 Forgiving the unforgivable

46:27 Narcissism

48:28 Over-identification

51:22 Becoming radiant



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