Childhood Wounds, Family Systems, people-pleasing, Relationships, Self-Worth
I think it’s safe to say that none of us had a perfect childhood, and we all carry around behaviours and unhealed pain that don’t serve us. But it doesn’t have to be this way: our past may have created our patterns, but we can change them with some self-awareness and the right tools. Join my bestie Vienna Pharaon and me as we dive into understanding and overcoming wounds from our Family of Origin, so you can move beyond your frustrating patterns in life and love and into a more liberated way of being.
Vienna is a licensed marriage and family therapist and one of New York City’s most sought-after relationship therapists. She has practiced therapy for more than fifteen years and is the founder and owner of the group practice Mindful Marriage and Family Therapy. Her first book, The Origins of You, hits shelves on February 21st, 2023.
02:10 How childhood wounds impact us today
13:57 You don’t need to have a traumatic childhood to have wounds
18:19 Being both disappointed with and grateful for aspects of your upbringing
29:23 Examples of origin wounds
32:35 The belonging wound
36:53 The prioritization wound
45:15 Safety and trust wounds
55:42 How to begin healing