24th March 2025
Rewiring Relationship Patterns: Mike Elliott on Overcoming Trauma

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Summary

Embark on a profound journey into the heart of relationships with Mark Groves and his guest, Mike Elliott, a seasoned relationship coach. This episode unravels the intricate tapestry of human connection, exploring how our childhood experiences shape our adult relationships. Mark and Mike dive into the depths of attachment, revealing how understanding these bonds can transform our partnerships and personal growth. Through candid discussions, they share personal stories of relationship breakdowns and the healing power of parenting, offering listeners a roadmap to navigate their own emotional landscapes.

 

Mike Elliott is a visionary transformation expert that specializes in the relational space, dedicated to empowering leaders in breaking free from their unhealthy patterns and imprints, unlocking the path to realizing their goals and dreams with boundless joy. Mike is an extremely skilled facilitator of men’s work, couples work, coaching business teams, and breathwork. He’s the co-host of the enlightening “Together” podcast. Mike’s expertise extends across various modalities, with an unwavering commitment to his clients’ success. Mike consistently delivers transformative results and helps people claim their most aligned life in love and life in a somehow easeful way.


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0:00 Intro

1:32 Introduction of Mike Elliott, relationship coach

4:30 Female empowerment and trauma in sex work

9:09 Early internet and its impact on relationships

14:04 Intimacy and Childhood Experiences

22:41 Exploring Childhood and Caregiver Impact

33:03 Resistance and Relationship Dynamics

46:22 Importance of Primary Attachment

55:18 Non-verbal communication in relationships

1:05:25 Processing Time and Trust

1:15:02 Nervous System and Healing

1:19:41 Processing Grief and Understanding Needs

1:23:23 Father’s role in emotional safety

1:28:20 Personal integrity and collective responsibility

1:33:21 Generative Questions in Relationships

1:38:32 Trust and safety with men


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